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Hey /adv/
Has anyone else ever constructed a fantasy about being with someone? Imagined your entire life together with that person? Literally dreamed about experiences with that person without even coming close to intimacy in real life? And I'm not talking occasionally. I mean everything you experience, you imagine what it would be like if they were there too. How you'd feel together. Yeah, a little obsessive, I know
I was like this with a girl. She rejected me. I'm not going to rant on how perfect she is because it's pointless to explain any interpersonal attraction on a mongolian lampshade trading forum. However, in short, she was everything I desired. I've had many crushes before and this was very different. I felt more calm, patient, confident, maybe. Much like the feeling that it'll all work out
What I'm getting at is I want to get over her. It's been about a month and a half and my attraction still feels as strong as ever. I know the usual /adv/ice is "time+avoidance" and I try to ignore her as much as possible. But I'm still in hs and it's hard when she's in 4/7 of my classes.
She still periodically invades my thoughts because I've fantasized for so long and I still have this incessant nagging that she may like me for some reason. I thought she was giving signs of it before but obviously not.
Is there a way to settle our "relationship" once and for all? I can't put up with this for 7 more months.
Thanks guys
Has anyone else ever constructed a fantasy about being with someone? Imagined your entire life together with that person? Literally dreamed about experiences with that person without even coming close to intimacy in real life? And I'm not talking occasionally. I mean everything you experience, you imagine what it would be like if they were there too. How you'd feel together. Yeah, a little obsessive, I know
I was like this with a girl. She rejected me. I'm not going to rant on how perfect she is because it's pointless to explain any interpersonal attraction on a mongolian lampshade trading forum. However, in short, she was everything I desired. I've had many crushes before and this was very different. I felt more calm, patient, confident, maybe. Much like the feeling that it'll all work out
What I'm getting at is I want to get over her. It's been about a month and a half and my attraction still feels as strong as ever. I know the usual /adv/ice is "time+avoidance" and I try to ignore her as much as possible. But I'm still in hs and it's hard when she's in 4/7 of my classes.
She still periodically invades my thoughts because I've fantasized for so long and I still have this incessant nagging that she may like me for some reason. I thought she was giving signs of it before but obviously not.
Is there a way to settle our "relationship" once and for all? I can't put up with this for 7 more months.
Thanks guys
