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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:51:08 No.16406338 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406388 >>16406389 >>16406769 >>16406858 >>16406904 >>16406911 >>16408019 >>16408057 >>16408075

How do I turn a girl around?

Today I ask a girl if she wanted to go out for lunch. She said "Will it be a date?" I responded "Maybe yes, maybe no." She then said "Sorry, but I'm not looking for a relationship. But we can still go as friends." I responded again "Sorry, but I'm looking for a relationship"

How badly did I fuck up?

Should I just move on?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:52:49 No.16406346 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406385

Yes move on, she just rejected your ass. Game over.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:05:50 No.16406385 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406394

>>16406346
Are there tips and tricks you have so that I don't make this mistake

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:06:11 No.16406388 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406419

>>16406338
she rejected your stupid ass.
And your stupid ass gave a even more retarded respond.

There's no way to "move on" from here.

Find another girl.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:06:12 No.16406389 Report Delete

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>>16406338
you were fucked when she said "sorry.."
That's the tell tale sign that its over.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:07:37 No.16406394 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406431

>>16406385
You didn't make any mistake. She just wasn't interested.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:14:18 No.16406419 Report Delete

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>>16406388
What was so stupid about my response.

Uncle Cunty

Uncle Cunty Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:17:18 No.16406431 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406448

>>16406394
This.

Why does such a simple interaction mean you fucked up? She now knows you're looking for a relationship with someone, that's a good thing.

The only thing you may have done wrong was to wimp out and not go to lunch as friends.

If if she's not interested you don't let the rejection defeat you... just accept it's not going to happen and next time say

"Well a relationship with you would be nice but I'm cool with hanging out as friends too"

You keep your pride plus you never know what may happen. She might change her mind or you might find out some gossip about other girls who are available. Chicks like talking, consider it research.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:22:10 No.16406448 Report Delete

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>>16406431
>Why does such a simple interaction mean you fucked up?
People still think there's a special phrase or key to making everyone always want them, and if the person isn't interested it just means they said the codeword wrong.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:26:33 No.16406704 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406720 >>16406772 >>16406775 >>16407165

CODE RED

LONG STORY SHORT I TRIES ASKING THE GIRL YESTERDAY FOR LUNCH AND I GOT REJECTED TODAY

WHAT DO

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:30:03 No.16406720 Report Delete

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>>16406704
Just don't reply

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:45:56 No.16406769 Report Delete

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>>16406338
>"Maybe yes, maybe no."
Next time just say yes. Girls love it when you're forward. However in this case, she probably would have still said no. Sometimes girls just aren't interested, there is no fuck up on your part necessarily.

Just a future tip, be direct and honest. women love that and you will love yourself for doing it. I'm pretty sure that me being direct with some women got me the date when they were unsure before, just because I looked like I knew what I wanted, and I wanted them, which they were flattered.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:46:36 No.16406772 Report Delete

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>>16406704
radio silence nigga
do not reply

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:48:26 No.16406775 Report Delete

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>>16406704
don't reply, anything you say just makes you look butthurt

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:57:14 No.16406793 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406841 >>16406851 >>16407165

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:16:49 No.16406841 Report Delete

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>>16406793
good job retard.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:18:58 No.16406851 Report Delete

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>>16406793
Have fun, she probably just texted to see if you'd respond still. But keep us updated anyway.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:21:07 No.16406858 Report Delete

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>>16406338
yes you just got rejected
but you dealt with it like a badass
"im looking for a relationship"
fuck yeah, nice buddeh

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:21:33 No.16406859 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406868 >>16406899 >>16406917 >>16407165

Causal convo is good right?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:23:26 No.16406868 Report Delete

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>>16406859
>Causal convo is good right?
It was never good.

Good job not listening to us.
Now figure shit out urself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:29:37 No.16406899 Report Delete

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>>16406859
you are fucked dude....

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:31:35 No.16406904 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406914

>>16406338
tap her on the shoulder.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:31:56 No.16406907 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16407165

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:32:26 No.16406911 Report Delete

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>>16406338
You didn't fuck up at all. You could've been more assertive and said "Yes, it will be a date." but you saved yourself when she said that she's not looking for a relationship. You did absolutely fine OP.

Also, she handled it well too. She didn't lead you on and was up front that she isn't looking for a relationship.

Yes, just move on. But do it with some pride, you have full closure and you stood your ground and did well. On to the next one and keep at it, you're doing fine.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:33:02 No.16406914 Report Delete

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>>16406904
if she doesn't turn around, grab her by the shoulders and rotate her in either direction.

She will turn around. If not, she probably thinks you are going to rape her. Show her that you are trustworthy, and prove her natural feelings.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:34:18 No.16406917 Report Delete

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>>16406859
No. OP You are misinterpreting this.

Casual convo is not "good." Get this shit out of your head.

Just stop responding, for real. Let it go. Don't respond to her unless she says something interesting. "Hey" is not interesting. Nor is her latest response. Let it go.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:35:38 No.16406921 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406927

You cucky little faggots.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:37:06 No.16406927 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406929

>>16406921
I swear to god if you reply something like "don't worry about it" you will be crowned king beta.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:37:46 No.16406929 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406934 >>16406937 >>16406938

>>16406927
Then what do I say?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:38:30 No.16406934 Report Delete

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>>16406929
I'd go with "What do you mean?"

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:38:43 No.16406937 Report Delete

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>>16406929
the same thing you would to an acquaintance that you find mildly annoying.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:38:57 No.16406938 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16407150

>>16406929
You stop replying. I'm telling you, like everyone else. She's texting you because she feels kinda bad and wants to avoid confrontation. Do it in person. Stop responding, seriously. That is the best decision and I mean it. If you don't see this, then you've got a very, very long way to go.

Uncle Cunty

Uncle Cunty Thu 29 Oct 2015 23:45:40 No.16407150 Report Delete

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>>16406938
Bullshit.

Just play it how you feel. Tell her you're cool with how things went, nothing to worry about.

Then ask for tits as compensation.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 23:51:01 No.16407165 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16407189

>>16406704
>>16406793
>>16406859
>>16406907

I dunno about you guys, but I'm enjoying this.

Anyway, go ahead OP, the right thing to do is say 'Don't Worry Abolut It Haha!'. I assure you, everything will be fine!

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 23:59:39 No.16407189 Report Delete

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>>16407165
I always love threads that have texts. Whenever a thread mentions texting I try to encourage them sceencaps are needed for the best advice.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 06:09:26 No.16408019 Report Delete

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>>16406338
>How do I turn a girl around?
You don't. Seriously, don't even try. It never ends well.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 06:32:07 No.16408057 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16408075

>>16406338
Rejection is okay. My current gf rejected me twice before we dated. It happens. If you are really interested in the girl, let the friendship play out. The more time you spend with her. The more likely she is to be attracted to you.

Just be confident.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 06:46:56 No.16408075 Report Delete

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>>16406338
She tried to friendzone you. You didn't go in that box aka dick in a glass case just in case every ass she does date fails.

You didn't fuck up you deserve a god damn high five. Move on there are plenty just like her and plenty better.

>>16408057
This guy escaped friendzone. This is a lottery ticket do not listen to it. Waste of effort even if it works.

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