/adv/ - Advice » Thread #16406541

[9 / 1 / ?]

18KiB, 460x526, 208327_461828457214399_899475573_n.jpg

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:50:07 No.16406541 View Reply Report Delete

A friend of mine has a family but is married. He regularly has sex with hookers, he tells me being that I only have a gf and no kids that I should do what ever I want because
A: shes not the mother of my kids yet
B: we're not married
I think about having sex with other girls a lot but I dont think I could ever do that, sometimes I have an urge to anyways, how can someone have a family and continuously do that then suggest his toxicity towards me?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:54:31 No.16406564 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>I think about having sex with other girls a lot
>keyword: think
Normal, somewhat acceptable - happens to go through periods of time when the sex drive towards the partner isn't as strong as always. Just fuck her harder whenever this happens.

>How can he continuously do that?
'cause he's fucked up.

>How can he suggest that to me?
'cause he's fucked up.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:57:48 No.16406585 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406609

idk, i don't think its wrong to have multiple sex partners. monogamy is just another way to be controlled by the system.
>i support polygamy

As long as he's supporting his children i see no problem with chasing all the tail in town.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:04:23 No.16406609 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406691

>>16406585
I respect your opinion, but things are not that easy. If his wife agrees to him chasing all the tail in town and they have an open relationship, that's cool with me. If not, that's fucked up.

Lastly, that is bound to cause social strain on the family. His children may one day find their father was quite the manwhore and inevitabily start questioning whether or not they are the same, possibly fucking up relationships.

Furthermore, polygamy and open relationships are still relationships. He's just swinging it with hookers.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:08:01 No.16406615 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406631

The only people that don't cheat in long term relationships are people incapable of doing so. There is nothing wrong with this as long as you have the decency to be discreet.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:11:56 No.16406631 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406615
...well. I agree for the first part.
>There is nothing wrong with it
bothers me, but this is entirely contextual.

So... what was the thread about, exactly? You seem to support the guy's life style - but to my understanding the question was "How could he do that, and suggest me to roll with it?"

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:12:29 No.16406635 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406541

>he tells me being that I only have a gf and no kids that I should do what ever I want because
A: shes not the mother of my kids yet
B: we're not married

These are great logistic reasons to cheat, but it isn't the act of sex that is the betrayal, its the lie.

If you feel like you're the kind of guy that can go out and fuck girls all day then come home and lie to your girlfriend/wife through your teeth then go for it.

If you have a little more moral fortitude then that then you should know that lying to someone you're supposed to be sharing your life with is a horrible idea.

Really want to fuck other girls? Get into an open relationship. Don't be a dick though. No one is a dick for just having sex with other people than your primary partner, its the lies and deceit that makes you a dick.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:23:14 No.16406691 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406609
>If not, that's fucked up
meant to include a 'both partners know' thing in there.

Tenesque

Tenesque Thu 29 Oct 2015 22:21:54 No.16406861 Report Delete

Quoted By:

I swear i fucking hate people... yall really on here talking abt how ok cheating is like tf?.... cheating is ok... cut my sss loose before you go fuck somebody else.. if i find out you put your mouth on sombody then kiss me... ima beat the shit outa .. that kind nastiness and disrespect cant be tolerated... im cool withthe open relationships but if its just you and me then its just you and me

Subject

Name

E-mail

Password

Capcode	All Only User Posts Only Verified Posts Only Moderator Posts Only Manager Posts Only Admin Posts Only Developer Posts Only Founder Posts
Show Posts	All Only With Images Only Without Images Only Spoiler Images Only Non-Spoiler Images
Deleted Posts	All Only Deleted Posts Only Non-Deleted Posts
Ghost Posts	All Only Ghost Posts Only Non-Ghost Posts
Post Type	All Only Sticky Threads Only Opening Posts Only Reply Posts
Results	All Grouped By Threads
Order	Latest Posts First Oldest Posts First

On these boards

Your latest searches