I don't tread here often but I've lurked this site for awhile, but I need help guy. My girlfriend has told me she has feeling for a guy in college when we're only seniors in high school. We dated 4 years ago and broke up after she moved away at the end of her 8th grade year, well this year she came back, I still had my feelings for her after 4 years and I immediately asked if she wanted to try something again. lol I wasn't even done with the question before she said yes and we've been happily together for 4 months now. But as of last week this guy texted her constantly, a guy she always had feelings for. immediately she started pushing away. When I told her she had to tell me what's really going on she told me she wanted to try it with him before she gets too serious with me. Not knowing what I could do to stop her I told that was fine with that. So here's what's happening now: She's going to go on a few dates with him while I sit back and wait, if things don't go well with him she's mine again, things go well with him and they get serious I drop all feelings for her and move on, as hard as that might be for me. So any opinions/advice on my current situation and what I could do to maybe bring her back to me?