What do women think of submissive guys? Where can you find dominant women?
I don't want any kind of weird BDSM type relationship, I just want a normal typical relationship but with a girl who is assertive and in control in the bedroom, but gentle about it.

Sometimes it seems like I have impossible to satisfy tastes. Like a woman that meets my ideals isn't possible to even exist.

I like women with a healthy body type, like someone athletic or even better muscular, I really like tomboyish girls with short haircuts, and armpit hair definetly happens to be one of my fetishes, but most women I meet like that happen to be either lesbians or crazy liberals. I want a girl that let's me feel like I can actually discuss things with her and isn't so deep into political ideology that telling her anything that contradicts her views would offend her, someone reasonable you could actually have a civil debate with as friends. She absolutely has to be into guns or at least willing to try, because that happens to be the field I work in.

Height and breast size aren't really anywhere near as important as anything else on my list, though a tall girl larger breasts would be nice obviously.

It just seems like with all of this it would be really damn hard to find any girls that I think would be completely ideal, or even close to my idea of ideal, mostly because I think I might have impossible standards.