I'm really not sure what to do here /adv/.
I met this amazing girl tonight that I really just totally synced with. She's had a rough early life (nothing more than your typical teenage angst really though) and she and I really connected (I myself having overdone my own struggles)
I really care about this girl and want to start a relationship with her. She's 18 and I'm 24, the only issue is she is really into BDSM and has a 34 year old "master." She doesn't consider herself important and has comfidence issues (although she says that, she and I got along great for having just met)

I want to improve her confidence and make her see there is more to life than being a sex slave for some way older than her guy. Am I messing with forces beyond my control? Is she too far gone for me to help her? Is there some massively different psychological point of view that I am just not appreciating?
I'm confident that I can help her, but I want /adv/'s opinion.
BDSM experts are appreciated.