Should every single guy know how to sext? I'm mean getting nudes or whatever. I am dumbfounded at this process. What is the very first step. Do I need to have at least taken her out once? I think I'm a decent looking guy and I get a good amount of matches on tinder but some of these girls I just want to sext because they're too far away. Basically I'm way too nice. I don't know. I get called very attractive but am just now breaking out of my dating shell. The process to me is just like, setting up a date(s), have nice, non-perverted convos, then comes her apartment/dorm whatever and it's easy from there. But I just don't know how to be that ultra flirty guy who makes girls wet just through text. Ironically my cousin is 100x better at texting game than me, but he also goes on 0 dates and is fat. The girls he talks to are girls on the internet that he comes across from whatever forum he goes on / game he plays. He's just very extroverted and perverted I guess. I am very very introverted and vanilla. Maybe I'm autistic. Anyways who has some pointers or even sites they know of that can help me with my texting game?