I'm in relationship for almost 2 years, at first it was great but later on we had some problems. In past month or more, she started acting really strange and even rude to me. When I asked what is going on, she said that we don't have real relationship, and that bothers her.

We see each other almost every day, watch movies, go out to eat, stuff that to me is normal for relationship. Only thing that is making us a problem is that we don't live close to each other and we are still students so we don't have a lot of money. For her normal thing in relationship is that we can spend night at each others house, I would like that too,but we both live with our parents, and they don't like that.

She slept at my place a few times, but there were some rules. I live with old and sick grandmother and mother, my grandmother is 100% against it, but my mother is only ok with it because of me. So when my gf comes to sleep over, she need to come later after my grandma went to sleep, and go home before she wakes up, and that is not early, it around 10-11 am. I know its sound stupid, but that is the only way we can do it with out making a big problem in my family, and because of that we do it only when my gf can't go home because its too late and she doesn't have bus home.

Now she wants to sleep over more often, and i have never slept at her place, because her father doesn't let it, meanwhile he lets her brother bring girls home. She said she talked to him, and I could sleep over sometimes, but i will have to sleep in living room and not in her room, but she never invited me to do it, so I don't know if its true.

I don't care much about sleeping over, I'm happy with her and soon we will get a job and we can travel and maybe rent some place one day. I don't like that she is forcing me to do something that she knows it will make a problem for me, sometimes i feel like she wants me to fight with my family, she often tels me that I put my family in first place,like that is a bad thing.