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Okay, here's my short story, looking for advise.
>Be me, 31yo, have this co-worker, 28yo, 7/10, been working together for about 1.5 yrs
>Had some sort of crush on her, always attracted to her, both emotional and physical
>Learn she has a bf, and since I really like and respect her, keep my distance
>Always thought of her as a friend, but still there was this spark, never thought she'd feel it too, though
>A week a go, we start texting because nothing to do, goes on for about 2 hrs
>Two days later she tells me that wasn't good, because it made her like me more and she already likes me more than is good for her
>areyoubeingserious.jpg
>Tells me she wants to talk
>She comes over, tells me she loves her bf and definitely wants to stay with him, but admits that she's had a crush on me aswell
>Pretty much tells me that we can't meet again, not too difficult since we work in different departments
>Wants to cancel all contact except for unavoidable stuff, like work dinners etc.
>Tells me she can't be in a room with me alone because she doesn't trust herself not to do something stupid, i.e. cheat on her bf
>Tells me she's been fantasizing about kissing me for a while
>I tell her, doesn't matter if we do since we're not gonna meet again anyways
>Not sure what to think at this moment, since there's definitely emotions involved, if she was single, I'd consider having a relationship with her, she tells me that she wouldn't hesitate too much about that either
>We kiss
>megusta.png
>I'm pretty good at kissing, she tells me she enjoyed it very much, felt totally powerless yet very comfortable and safe
>We talk some more
>She says she's gotta go, and she's not gonna return
>As she gets up, comes towards me, kiss again for a few minutes
>Leaves, tells me first thing she's gonna do is delete my number
>I try to deal with the situation, doesn't break my heart, but still not overly joyful situation
cont.
>Be me, 31yo, have this co-worker, 28yo, 7/10, been working together for about 1.5 yrs
>Had some sort of crush on her, always attracted to her, both emotional and physical
>Learn she has a bf, and since I really like and respect her, keep my distance
>Always thought of her as a friend, but still there was this spark, never thought she'd feel it too, though
>A week a go, we start texting because nothing to do, goes on for about 2 hrs
>Two days later she tells me that wasn't good, because it made her like me more and she already likes me more than is good for her
>areyoubeingserious.jpg
>Tells me she wants to talk
>She comes over, tells me she loves her bf and definitely wants to stay with him, but admits that she's had a crush on me aswell
>Pretty much tells me that we can't meet again, not too difficult since we work in different departments
>Wants to cancel all contact except for unavoidable stuff, like work dinners etc.
>Tells me she can't be in a room with me alone because she doesn't trust herself not to do something stupid, i.e. cheat on her bf
>Tells me she's been fantasizing about kissing me for a while
>I tell her, doesn't matter if we do since we're not gonna meet again anyways
>Not sure what to think at this moment, since there's definitely emotions involved, if she was single, I'd consider having a relationship with her, she tells me that she wouldn't hesitate too much about that either
>We kiss
>megusta.png
>I'm pretty good at kissing, she tells me she enjoyed it very much, felt totally powerless yet very comfortable and safe
>We talk some more
>She says she's gotta go, and she's not gonna return
>As she gets up, comes towards me, kiss again for a few minutes
>Leaves, tells me first thing she's gonna do is delete my number
>I try to deal with the situation, doesn't break my heart, but still not overly joyful situation
cont.
