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Ive been with my gf for a little over 3 years , and theres a big age difference as im 23, and shes 40. everything has been great in our relationship for the most part. but im stuck in a moral dillema.
I love the girl with all my heart , and she truly loves me. the problem is that ,
1. One day she will actually start to look "Old" and i mean old like "Grandma" old. and i feel as if i'll be cheating myself as ill only be about 30 or so,
2. She can't have kids anymore, (i've always wanted to have a kid of my own, and unfortunately she cant give that to me)
Again, everything is great between us, but im afraid of the long term pro's and cons,
Has anyone been in a situation like this before? or have any advice on wether to leave now? or continue happily till whenever?
I love the girl with all my heart , and she truly loves me. the problem is that ,
1. One day she will actually start to look "Old" and i mean old like "Grandma" old. and i feel as if i'll be cheating myself as ill only be about 30 or so,
2. She can't have kids anymore, (i've always wanted to have a kid of my own, and unfortunately she cant give that to me)
Again, everything is great between us, but im afraid of the long term pro's and cons,
Has anyone been in a situation like this before? or have any advice on wether to leave now? or continue happily till whenever?
