I was the girl last night whose boyfriend got caught with his exes nudes. He deleted them in front of me and then tried to recover them. I asked him repeatedly for a reason why he wanted them, and he kept saying he was stupid. Now, last night, I gave him an ultimatum that he could either tell me the reasons or move out.
He told me the truth finally, and said he wanted to masturbate to them. And that he had been doubting our relationship for a couple of days around that time, and had been wondering if I loved him as much as he loved me. He had a lapse in judgment as to whether he wanted me or his ex.
Should I take this as a mistake on his part, and forgive him? Or is this something that is the ending factor in the relationship?
It hurts that he ever doubted our relationship, but I feel like I could get over it and forgive him and accept it as a fuck up.