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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 18:38:35 No.16409905 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410009 >>16410015 >>16410017

>friday night again
>another weekend with no plans
>no friends
>just going to stay inside again
what can i do to change this? i want to be normal and have a social life..

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 18:39:31 No.16409912 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16409926

lift

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 18:40:16 No.16409913 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16409926

Try gaming.. fun way to meet people online if you're not into the face to face thing

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 18:41:49 No.16409922 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16409926

What stage are you at in your non-social life?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 18:43:11 No.16409926 Report Delete

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>>16409912
i do lift
i will be lifting tonight. might even go rock climbing after (by myself)

>>16409913
but i'll be inside if i game. i'll have to find people in my own city somehow

>>16409922
deep in the non-social life
graduated college. been at my job for a year and don't have any close friends.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:15:03 No.16410006 Report Delete

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Game with 4Chins

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:16:18 No.16410009 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16409905
Start smoking pot

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:17:52 No.16410015 Report Delete

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>>16409905
Join a racist movement

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:19:00 No.16410017 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410042

>>16409905
Stop using 4Chan not gonna find friends here

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:19:02 No.16410018 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410021

Tinder is a decent way to meet girls if you have banter and are decent looking. Once you have a girl the rest pretty much falls into place.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:22:15 No.16410021 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410031

>>16410018
>if you have banter and are decent looking
i have neither of these though. especially not the latter

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:27:00 No.16410031 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410036

>>16410021
have you tried joining a sports club?

recommend avoiding tinder then, you'll be disappointed.

not having banter could be the source of your predicament. no one wants to hang out with boring and awkward people.

How did you end up without close friends?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:28:26 No.16410036 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410070

>>16410031
i'm not very good at sports though. i lift, but don't do cardio

>How did you end up without close friends?
i guess by being boring and awkward?

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Truckerfag !!+KSIm6sOufE Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:30:11 No.16410042 Report Delete

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>>16410017
If only you knew how wrong you were.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:41:40 No.16410070 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410131

>>16410036
Well, get good at a sport or join a rubbish club. there's plenty that are just there to have an excuse to go out and are mainly about the social life.

you can get less awkward by forcing yourself to have conversations. they will be very awkward at first but as you go along you get better at it.

when you join the club you can avoid becoming that weirdo that no one talks to by forming into a group with a 2/3 of other people. that way it won't matter so much that you're shit at bants.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:45:40 No.16410091 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410131

Try socializing more even random conversations with people in public as it will boost your confidence in social aspects in your life.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 19:58:09 No.16410131 Report Delete

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>>16410070
will see if there are any beginner leagues in my area, but last i checked there weren't any really that fit my schedule

>>16410091
how random of people? like complete strangers?
i went to the mall, and everyone was with someone or looking at their phone. store clerks seemed to be uninterested in me and seemed to be avoiding me tbh

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 20:02:39 No.16410144 Report Delete

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>i went to the mall, and everyone was with someone or looking at their phone. store clerks seemed to be uninterested in me and seemed to be avoiding me tbh
I wouldn't go and be a weirdo starting conversation with randomers or anything.

most casual clubs have hours designed to fit around working life so unless you have some bumfuck job with odd hours you should be able to find one.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 20:03:28 No.16410147 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410176

good question, I lift a lot but otherwise have no social life. I go to malls and sometimes get looks from girls but nothing significant tbh.

it's just so hard meeting people solo. everyone has their social circle established and getting in it is seemingly impossible.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 20:16:11 No.16410176 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16410179

>>16410147
I've moved in another town for studys. Alone, you know? And I met more people there than in my entire life before.
What is your Profession? You can meet up some people during work or in University.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 20:18:32 No.16410179 Report Delete

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>>16410176

im done school, that's the problem.

and my old "friends" are all dating and dont want to have a social life anymore.

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