>>16409915>I hear about these sugar baby arrangements and I can’t help but fantasize being in oneIts safer to keep it as a fantasy
>Is this a wise choice?Keeping it as a fantasy is a wise choice
>Anybody out there with experience to give me a push or snap me out of it?I tried finding a sugar daddy while I was at uni, I go to the gym 4 days a week, I eat clean, I would like to think that I look pretty good, I take a fair bit of pride in my appearance.
I went drinking in "vodka revolutions" and met a 45yo divorcee (he claimed to be 40) that was in the line of work that I was pursuing, he bought me a drink and we chatted, he added me on facebook and we parted ways.
Before I knew it, he was in contact with me every day, he took me for dinner 2 - 3 times a week as friends, I didn't touch him, he tried to shower me with gifts like clothes, shoes and household things (many of which I refused), then he got a bit possessive if I was hanging around with guys.
One night we went for dinner and he offered to give me money in exchange for me living with him and escorting him to work functions as his partner, I was immediately uncomfortable, he then said the words that made my clit pull in like a turtle's head:
"You will also get generous bonuses for any extra personal work you do for me"
I got up and left, he apologised, bought me some Jimmy Choos and said he was out of line, then within a week he was asking me to send pictures of myself in what he bought for me saying it was the least I could do.
I told him to leave me alone, he then got more possessive, showed up at uni asking for me, showed up at my flat, he even joined the gym and tried pulling me aside to talk to him, he then texted me that I owed him for all the dinners etc and 10 blowjobs would make us even.
I went to the police, there was a long legal process and he eventually left me alone, I changed my degree as the line of work was a small world and I didn't fancy seeing him again.
