Is there any point in texting and using the phone when most of communication is non verbal?93% non verbal?

You've sent a funny text to her, all you get is a lol and a smiley faces

Vs

Saying it in person and seeing her laugh uncontrollably, snorking, expressing how funny you are in a excited tone and glaring at you like you're the only two people in the room.

Next question is.

What is considered busy when you're in a relationship with a girl.

You and your buddies are having a clan tournament on Call of Duty all today.

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Hanging out with friends and family to try out a new resturant or you got a lot of work that needs to be done.

Aren't both considered being busy, isn't it your "Free time"?

Its a lot of stuff women do men don't understand and it's a lot of stuff men do that women don't understand that they do in they're free time.

I mean ofcourse if playing video games is all a guy has going for him and he doesn't make income of it than yeah stay away but should a women really look down on the guy for considering playing a game, "not being busy".