>>8660292I met two different girls, two different years at the same con.
Goes the same both times
> we hit it off well> end up spending whole con together for as long as we could> both understand there could be something there so we exchange info> months of talking on skype and messaging> realize holy shit this person is amazing> go for it> same cookiecutter bullshit of long distance or LOL SEEING SOMEBODY DIDNT WANNA HURT UR FEELINGSIt's rare I get confident enough in a friendship to want to try and go further. Usually because the ones I like don't want me and cant give a decent reason. Meaning like, hey I get you don't wanna date me, mind telling me what's so off putting so maybe I can have a chance with somebody else in the future?
I never went to cons looking for love or even wanting anything more than to dress up for a weekend.
Sad part is im in a relationship with somebody who I know loves me dearly but..... I often find myself pining for The past. Somebody I'd do as much as my current girl does for me... And I get where she came from now.....
It's way more complicated than I can fit in the post and I don't care to talk about it further but I will say this to any young man thinking he met somebody cool:
They're that cool, they may think you're cool too. Don't try and push it farther. Just realize they may want to screw you, just take it and leave it because as soon as you even remotely let them know you like them you lost.
Femanons you can try to deny it.... But it's true. Multiple occasions. Sad part is?
As a man I'm guilty of that shit too and it fucking works.
