>>77101720>but now she's changing, changing in a way that he doesn't understand.Just a minor point, but: I think he *understands* it fine, it just horrifies him. Like if you found out that your runaway daughter has a smack habit now, and she's whoring herself for heroin money, the problem isn't that you *don't get it*, it's that you do and it horrifies you. Whereas maybe a guy from Holland or whatever the fuck thinks that's perfectly natural and fine, and you're just uptight.