>>77079424Acting in self interest is not the same as being a self centered shit who talks and is _solely_ interested in themselves.
You'll notice other people can talk about things and people that aren't themselves.
All the advice given to you thus far you brushed off as not working. Including going to the manager, being blunt, being HONEST.
Here's the best advice in the thread that you'll get though:
Get a better personality. People being _nice_ to you isn't a bad thing.
Not everyone being nice to you is flirting with you. You'll deny it and state it isn't so I'm sure, but, maybe you should just take gestures of kindness as just that. Learn to take a compliment. Don't get upset at everything.
Try to calm the fuck down.
You are an angry person. I can tell this just from a short interaction with you. This isn't everybody else's fault. This is yours.
When people are nice to you and you snap at them or you're getting upset, I think it's time you stop and do some hard soul searching.
Or not. You'll probably ignore this because that's easier. You'll shut down and push it all out. Because you can push labels on me like, "woman hater" and that means everything I said is therefore wrong. It's easy. Do the easy thing or do the hard thing. Blame everyone else, or accept personal responsibility. Not exactly a difficult choice, now, is it?
