>dress normally, have confidence and decent job (synthetic chemist for drug company)
>horror movie tattoos, but no one sees them until I know the person
>decent at bringing girls home, or having them over for dinner if I want to start something serious
>have a coffee table book full of pic related
>tropical centipede and millipede as pets
>other "weird" shit in general around my apartment
>only saving grace is a bunch of plants I have

No matter how into me they were before, it's like they think I'm a serial killer or something once they find out about my interests. How do I find a girl also into this without outing my interests to the general public, or should I instead just try to be more of a normie?

Also what do you like better, bench, incline, or OHP?

>OHP