>>34667348Because girls with daddy issues and who have been abused as childs (like she was) have issues with masculinity and always are in the "slutty side" For me is a red flag.
The guy told me he really liked her but suspected something was up. He wanted to know if she still had contact with me even though she never mentioned anything about an ex bf.
Well after that she became pregnant with another guy, split up before the baby was even born. Started calling me again, contacting me, even begging man...And I buckled, started meeting her again. Even sleeping together. This was on and off for years. Having fights, etc. She stopped seeing me after some time and got even another bf. At this point I got a back injury and became bedridden. I could not walk, let alone lift. It was a dark time in my life. A few months in and started calling me to fuck. We only saw eachother every few months. Then she split with this guy and started seeing a guy I know. He is like a Fat, drunk unaesthetic chad. Split contact with me and that drove me nuts. Well, She eventually fucked me again and cheated on her new bf with me. Again. What I most remember is that for all those months she had become very cold to me. But then she went back to being nice and caring...It was surreal and like...a mindfuck. What I really dread is that because of my injury she always told me "aww you look so skinny" over and over. It drove me nuts. Well we had a falling out, I told her I did not respect her. To have some sense and that she should respect her child. After that we cut all ties. She is now living with the guy I mentioned. Even though he was cheated on. I guess ignorance is bliss.
What I want to tell all the younger, less experienced anons out there is that loving a person can trully destroy you and destroy your life. Make you lose everything else you love in life. It can warp the way you view things. You have to love you first. Use your anger, sadness and frustration to become a better you.
