>>34671594I can smell the r9k on you dude holy shit.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
If lifting, working on your social skills, and just generally trying to be better only makes you 1% more successful with women(which shouldn't even by your barometer for success), that's still 1% more than if you just wallow in self loathing and jealousy all the time.
Everyone gets dealt their hand and there are people who have it worse than you and people who have it better. In the grand scheme of things, comparative to all of human history, you have it pretty good. Lifting is about the journey, I love lifting. I would lift even if it didnt make me look better, I'd probably lift if it made me look worse. Love the journey, lifting isnt about some self flagellation period with some light at the end of the tunnel called "making it", it doesn't exist. Just love what you do day in and day out, and pretty soon youll wake up and be like holy shit im pretty aesthetic. That's it man, seriously evaluate what you want out of life and change your attitude. Or get the fuck off fit.
