>No matter how hard you lift, how swole you get, she'll never love you back.
That would be a shame, if there was only one girl in the world.
Having oneitis is the biggest indicator of beta behavior. You bought into the disney/true love/soul mate fantasy. What you failed to understand is the obvious fact that:
Love is a numbers game. You think you just HAPPEN to find the most perfect girl for you, out of the billions currently alive today? Don't make me laugh.
There will always be a girl out there who's:
- Cuter than the girl you're in love with
- More loving
- Would care about you more
- Shares more interests
- Is better for you in every way
There's simply too many of them to go through in a single lifetime.
Let me guess. You fell in love with the first qt that gave you a bit of attention?
You're a man. Just as a man loves for motherly features in a woman (kind, caring, nurturing) as well as good genes, a woman looks for fatherly features in a man (dominant, confident, manly, in charge of his life).
What does this mean? It means you have to take the initiative. It means that it's YOUR job to make the approach. This is not only socially acceptable, but outright EXPECTED of you.
It means that the world is your oyster. Ever see a cute girl that you wanted to talk to? I'm sure you see at least a few per days.
Talk to them. As a man, once you realize that mind > matter, the whole world becomes a giant fucking harem.
Because even if only one in ten women you approach would be interested in you, THAT MEANS THAT ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TALK TO TEN WOMEN ON AVERAGE TO FIND YOURSELF A QT.
And once you do put yourself out there and surround yourself with QTs, you'll soon realize that the girl you're in love with ain't so special after all. It was all just in your head.
Now stop being a little bitch and go back to lifting
