To continue…. I’ve had various sexual experiences with well over a 100 women and had an ongoing relationship with I think 4 men. (Not counting the countless hours I spent on my knees whenever there were gloryholes available) Starting in High School, actually earlier than that, but I won’t go there; I realized early on that being a shoulder to cry on often led to an offer to comfort them with a massage, and well you can figure out the rest. I spent almost 4 years in 5 different countries in SouthEast Asia, all while my permanent station was Clark Air Force Base in the Philippines. At the time CAB was the largest Air Force Base outside of the continental United States. Among other amenities was the fact that CAB had a population of almost 10,000 dependent daughters. Plus of course the zillions of “bar girls” available. I also spent many years working as a paramedic in a hospital environment (read: nurses everywhere) Enough about me, the point that I really wanted to make is that all my life I’ve listened to guys bitch about sexless wives, girlfriends who won’t do this or that while at the same time over the past many, many years, I have been to bed with at least 20 women who had been married for10 or 20 years and never had an orgasm. Whose fault was that? I’ve never been with a woman who was unwilling to at least try any sexual activity. Most even learned to love anal. It helps that I’m not built like John Holmes. My last two points, just about all of the women I’ve been with, when asked preferred small and medium to large dicks. The most common reason was “because they hurt”. Finally, if you recognize that less then playboy class chicks, like sex too.