>>5124492That's kinda lame. She should be willing to try more.
But it took me like 2 tries to get the hang or strapons, strapless took an extra attempt on it's own after a good week of kegal exercises. It's easier if she's riding you. Or I get that you're the one that wants to get fucked so you'd be riding her.
Or just wear a harness while wearing the strapless strap on. Like training wheels on a bike till she builds the muscle to hold it on it's own.
On pleasure it's more if she prefers that kinda g-spot inner stimulation or clit. You say it's hard to get at the clit but trust me when I say they build quality strap ons to be doing nothing but hitting that clit area. A lot of girls don't get of on just g-spot penetration alone.
But you could just cover all bases. Get something like the share vibrate (
lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=32202). I only ever tried a share once, older model than that without vibrate, but it was really good at hitting both clit and g spot. It def stayed in with more ease than the feeldo or even eternal swan. I just didn't care for the size of it but that's just me being a pussy. They make smaller sizes, bigger too.