>>5106180>>5107108I think I understand what you're observing and I agree that it seems strange. However, think about it from the girl's perspective.
>What does she want with you?If you fit a stereotype, you're going to get stereotyped. It sounds like you fit a stereotype. Women also respond better when you're physically present around them for whatever biological reasons. They aren't good with that abstract hotness shit.
So when you're a pretty picture on a computer, so what, lot's of pretty pictures on the internet. But when you're 6'4" filling out your shit next to her on the couch and she's been drinking, she might have a different reaction.
Also remember that herd mentality and culture matter to women but men don't really give a fuck. If a guy is taking your dick up his ass, what the fuck does he care about being like "Hey you're hot come fuck me again"? Women though... they seem to get weird about shit like that still.
I think modern culture isn't really smooth with female biology yet. Women don't know how to be balance being the alpha dogs out there super slutting and getting the 6'4" trophy guy (you) with their inner feelings. Leadership - in the boardroom or the bedroom - comes with a different set of rules and women aren't used to that shit yet.
Example from my own life - found a bi girl I connected sexually with. Super adventurous, I didn't even want to fuck that night but she was very convincing. She had a great time. Then, afterward, she tried to play some games. Because of her making that shit awkward and turning me off, that great night didn't go anywhere and now I get texts from her trying to booty call me passive aggressively because she wants it but knows she tried to play games and i wasn't having that shit...
So girls would rather play silly games over text instead of get their shit fucked out well enough that I'm still hearing about it from her friends a month later.