>>5114713Meaning that you shouldn't be wanting to wear twinky little femme-boy shit when you get older.
You might ask, "but how come I want it so much right now? What does it mean?"
It means it's a PHASE. So just wear whatever you want right now but don't pretend it's actually an important part of who you are as a person. Your teens and twenties are your teens and twenties, it doesn't mean that you're going to be frozen like that forever (because you won't be).
Does that mean you can't have feminine qualities? No, you already have them. How you express them will likely change. I'd argue Tim Gunn is feminine, do you see him wearing a skirt and eye shadow? No, because he's a full-grown man and isn't buying into tumblr Peter Pan-syndrome.
