>tfw don't know if I'm in love with someone
Ok /lgbt/, here's the deal. I've been talking to this guy for months now, and I've developed a pretty strong emotional attachment, and since the relationship was mostly virtual, and we didn't swap lewds until we officially got together, I almost didn't feel any desire for him. The second time we actually met (we live 800km from each other) we started holding hands, kissing and such, my dick got hard pretty fast. The third time we met we "sealed" the deal, and it was really a weird experience, I like his body but he was so stiff and nervous in everything we did in those three days that I began to wonder my attaction towards him. I'm a verse guy and he's a bottom but I like my guys a bit more playful and aggressive in bed, he doesn't seem to "get" that, he wants just to be dominated and it's pretty much a turn off for me. Should I try to talk to him and "fix" this? He's pretty insecure in his abilities in bed and I' afraid to hurt him. Emotionally I can't live withouth him but I think this incompatibility in bed and the fact we live so distant from each other will hurt the relationship in the long run.