>>5132038 cl isn't all bad. Like grindr or any other place where people are looking to hook up. Some are decent others aren't. It's only sketchy if you reply to the first email from some 40 year old dude with the subject: "fuck" and the email just reads "you". Write in your ad what you're looking for, slow, looking to explore, curious, want to talk via email before we meet etcetc. That should help attracting the right kind of people, mind you, all the wrong kind will still email you for a fuck.