So, why is it that feminists are comfortable with people adressing the public with "ladies and gentlemen"?

I mean, why "ladies" first all the time? Is it because feminists are obsessed with it always being "ladies first" all the time? Isn't it hypocritical?

Just think about it - Even tho Gays were discriminated against a shit ton more than lesbians (and contributed more to the struggle than lesbians) , we still put L before G. Why? Because women -must- come first otherwise they complain ?