>>5138062the line between what is conventionally considered part of the gay community and what is otherwise "just a normal sexuality/gender" is subjective (sexuality and gender are incredibly complex, no two are alike, in that sense all sex/genders are abnormal, and the umbrella labels we put on them are socially constructed) but generally we do "have" to accept them since they are by conventional definition queer to the letter.
many of them are not faking it.
that's an interesting question. it could be that many people where you live are white and so many people of a specific subdivision of the people where you live are also white simply by nature though the overpopulation is only obvious on a smaller scale. it's possible that white people, tending to be oppressed and judged for one less reason than people of visual minority tend to be, feel more comfortable exploring and expressing the subtle idiosyncrasies of their identities. w/e
