I keep seeing trans people on tumblr saying it's transphobic for lesbians to not date trans women/gays to not date trans men, and when you try to argue they just say you are reducing a person to their genitals, and even go so far to say stupid shit like "would you not date a girl if she had a really really large clitoris? or a guy if he had a really really small penis?".
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. So they are telling me, as a gay male, I just have to roll with it and start liking vaginas and calling them neo-penises or something? This is bullshit.