FtM guy here.
After taking a break (due to a broken down car) I'm trying to date again. Unfortunately I didn't date back in school (nothing long term/serious anyway), so I'm still a wobbly legged fawn in this field...
I don't drink or use drugs, so I'm focusing on online dating instead of bars and clubs. I'm looking for potential life partners/husbands; should that affect how I "break the ice" with them in messages? Should I expect PDA on our dates, or do most gay/bi guys prefer to be more stealthy?
Also, I have an idea of when I want to tell them I'm pre-op FtM, but I'm still a bit unsure as to how. Any ideas on the best way to drop something like that?
Lastly, do you see it as a pro or con if the guy you're dating is a completely inexperienced virgin? Just curios since I've never so much as touched or seen a real penis in person in my adult life.

Thanks guys