hi /lgbt/ I am questioning whether I am bi or just plain old gay.

As far as gender norms go I am pretty butch, I hunt, shoot, and play rugby. But I had a terrible break up and ever since then I haven't been able to see women the same way. I have had some okay sex with some ex-girlfriends but I have not been able to get it up for any new girls. I find myself thinking about what it would be like to date or kiss a guy. I think about this one time when I was in college and I invited an obviously gay twink to my apartment to study. He thought we were going to fuck, but never made a move, at that time I really wanted to study, but I'm thinking maybe there was something more there. I also like bodybuilding, like alot.

Anyway, can some of you tell me about your questioning experiences?