What are some ways for a trans woman to have a quality orgasm? I still don't know how to please myself sexually (and well).

I find the self-handjob method I learned from boys at school dull, unfulfilling, uncomfortable and a little painful both from the touch alone and because I can't pull my foreskin all the way down. Recently I found out on my own that pushing against the spot right below my failed ovaries with my hand while squeezing my nipples leaves me feeling crazy overwhelmed and I managed to reach two orgasms in a row that way but to actually come I had to do it the cold, boring way.
How do other trans people masturbate?