>>7293947No. They give me BJJs.
Blowjob jobs.
Also, I try to emphasise spending time and eating with friends, as Epicurus suggests it, and it seems to work pretty well if you want to be on the path of simple happiness.
The one thing I find that keeps me going these days, though, is having a goal. Things like physical and mental qualities I want to have several years down the track.
I also recommend Toastmasters to any /lit/izen, because it teaches you how to speak well to others, and is a formal and old organisation itself. You could call it patrician, even.