Your government doesn't care about you, you've no need to feel patriotic, you've no need to love your country, why do you still love your country?

Why argue about which country is better? When you say "we" when referring to an action directly caused by your government, why do you delude yourself into thinking that you've had any part in it?
Why do you feel proud for something you've never directly caused, why do you feel strong?

Your country is the government and nothing else, so why fight eachother? You're not in control of the soil you're born on, so why do you think it's your country? Nothing is ours truly and never will be.