>>23846160aliens would be fascinating and a mystery. virgins are just a joke to most people and beyond that they don't care. as unnatural as our lives already are, abstaining from sex goes a bit far considering how our hormones drive us to want it on a regular basis. there used to be some reason for it based on fear of disease, but people valued family and pleasure so much it didn't really stop anyone for long.
but outright being denied sex or failing to pursue it appropriately is pretty sad, if not deep. it's not surprising that lack of relationships compounds the problems that someone already has, and they always fucking whine about it. what you actually hear about people "shaming" virgins is the result of virgins rambling all the time about their virginity and reveal their problems/mentality, so everyone puts 2 and 2 together.
nobody in the world actually ponders about virgins, nor is it normal to inquire someone about their sex life unless you find it personally valuable in a more private relationship. on top of that, people in this thread kind of judge the people who judge them without realizing the irony.