Why can't I be friends with attractive females, r9k? If I'm not attracted to them it's fine. If I am I can't stand to have them complain about their relationship and personal problems to me when they very well know that I would go out with them and treat them better than that. I have learned to resent the "friendzone".. I feel like I'm being used as an emotional tampon if I'm in it.

I know I am not entitled to their pussy and you don't really choose who you're attracted to but at the same time I feel like they are not entitled to my emotional support either. I really would like to be their friend but I am kind of torn.. it hurts to know that they will never feel the way I do about them but it also hurts to abandon someone that clearly needs help and support. I have the fantasy that one day they will come to their fucking senses but that seems like a fairy tale. At the same time, pity sex is still sex.

I know you guys can't make moral decisions for me but I'd like some input.. I feel incredibly shallow for being like this. Am I just a shit person? Picture not related.