>>23850079Oh boy.
I learned that the hard way when I actually fell in love with a compassion whore a few years back.
Beta orbited her for several years.
I knew from the beginning, that it didn't have any merit, and that she wasn't worth it rationally, so I used the pain to mold myself into a better person.
She used to have time for me whenever I needed someone to talk, and was generally extremely nice to me.
The moment I didn't need her anymore for emotional support, she dropped me hard.
I never received such an intense apathy from anyone.
Literally couldn't even imagine someone could be this cold.
In anything she did she now put me LAST.
And I don't mean in the sense of "not important" last, but absolutely most literally every single person on this planet before me is more important now that she has no more use for me.