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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:38:53 No.23858326 View Reply Report Delete

I was planning on breaking up with my girlfriend (inb4 normie) but her mom who she was very close with has just died. How long do I have to wait before I can break up with her?

We've been dating a little over 2 years now.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:41:07 No.23858367 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858384 >>23858444

Why wait?

It's not like she would have the same courtesy towards you, she'd be fucking another guy before your mom is even buried.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:42:14 No.23858384 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858444

>>23858367
Yeah OP, don't listen to this guy. Wait a couple of weeks at least, you've made it this far.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:42:47 No.23858395 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858444

you may think you are going to get right back out there and start dating. the fact is for two years your social skills have been deteororating. you are going to get back out there and find that no girls want a single guy

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:43:38 No.23858414 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858444

A month but then it's Thanksgiving, then Christmas....I'd wait until Jan 15

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:43:44 No.23858415 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858444

Depends.

Was this an expected or unexpected death?

For the former, you should probably stick around for another three months. Five months for the latter.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:43:54 No.23858418 Report Delete

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Manipulate her into breaking up with you, dumbass.

Become beta as fuck and get fat.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:44:30 No.23858424 Report Delete

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>>23858326
>I was planning on breaking up with my girlfriend
Why?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:45:14 No.23858438 Report Delete

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Fuck off with your blogshit you stupid faggot normie

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:45:28 No.23858444 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858456 >>23858471

>>23858367
>>23858384
>>23858395
>>23858414
>>23858415
It was unexpected. Heart attack. Would 2 months be ok?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:46:16 No.23858456 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858506

>>23858444
2 months will be new years

The girl I am sleeping with hasn't broken up with her bf for the same reason

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:46:53 No.23858471 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858506

>>23858444
If you don't want to be "that guy" then you should probably wait until a week or two after New Years.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:48:09 No.23858500 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858529

Honestly dude it'd be better to just break up with her now. It'll just suck for both of you and she'll figure out you're only with her cuz her mom died.

It's better for you to be honest with her than drag it out and make it seem like you're pitying her, plus you don't have to deal with the mom shit

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:48:24 No.23858506 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858521

>>23858456
>>23858471
Fuck. I want out. I guess I could wait a couple months though.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:49:11 No.23858521 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858585

>>23858506
Use this time to look for a replacement

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:49:38 No.23858529 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858617

>>23858500
She is madly in love with me and me breaking up with her combined with her mom dying would fuck her up I think.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:52:43 No.23858585 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23858606

>>23858521
>look for a replacement

Man, this whole notion that people have to constantly be in relationships is retarded. Take some time off for yourself bruh.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:53:42 No.23858606 Report Delete

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>>23858585
It's easier to find a gf when you have a gf

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:54:13 No.23858617 Report Delete

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>>23858529
It'll be the same regardless. There's a big difference between being there for someone because you want to help them and being worried about the consequences. Plus, you wait what, 2 months? "I can't believe you're breaking up with me on Christmas! After my mom died"

A year? "I can't believe you're breaking up with me, after all we've been through!". If she's madly in love with you, and you wanna break up, shits gonna end eventually. Get er done now and let her friends stop her from killing herself.

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