/r9k/ - ROBOT9001 » Thread #23859630

By just asking her out.

There's no concrete sign, just fucking do it and get the rejection over with before you begin becoming a creepy beta cuck who follows her around all day and text her all night while shes getting fucked by chads dick.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 14:55:28 No.23859685 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862143

>>23859630
>know if a girl actually likes you and isn't just being polite?

>if youre ugly
being polite

>if attractive
likes you

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 14:56:48 No.23859716 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23859916

Honestly, if you can't tell, the answer is no. If there really is that connection between you two, you won't even think about it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:05:50 No.23859916 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23859986

>>23859716
shit normie advice. the few times girls have liked me, i second guessed myself into oblivion thanks to rock bottom self esteem. go for it, OP, learn from my shit mistakes. even if she shoots you down, at least you know

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:07:15 No.23859950 Report Delete

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>>23859630
Have you tried fitting your arm in her?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:08:47 No.23859986 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23860002 >>23862015 >>23862678

>>23859656
>>23859671
>>23859916
Thanks anon's, you guys are probably right. Fuck it, what do I have to lose.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:09:36 No.23860002 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23860039

>>23859986
i wish i had the spirit of yours, unformtunately I feel like living in a cage unabel to do anything.
Godspeed

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:11:29 No.23860039 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861578

>>23860002
Ill probably wait until the end of the semester so that if she shoots me down I won't have to see her every day after I inevitably get rejected. I'm just so fucking tired of wondering what might have been.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:29:23 No.23860353 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861220

>>23859630
Does she ever initiate a conversation when you chat? Then she might like you in some way.
If you always have to initiate then she is just being polite, even if she is willing to carry on the conversation.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 15:33:34 No.23860441 Report Delete

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>>23859656
About time women stopped and made the first move themselves not hard just do it

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:07:04 No.23861178 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861675

body language

do some reasearch, what she says really isnt that important, how she acts and what her body language is 90% of it

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:08:21 No.23861220 Report Delete

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>>23860353
She does initiate it, I just can't tell the difference between romantic and platonic looks apparently. She leans back onto my desk a lot but this is where I feel like I read into this shit too much.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:22:51 No.23861578 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861633

>>23860039
Waiting is a bad idea. Being quick to the punch shows confidence. Plus she might know that you waited if you do it at the end of the semester.

Just fucking go for it. Do it faggot.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:25:22 No.23861633 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861695

>>23861578
She's in my project group so if I fuck this up I have to see her constantly and it's gonna be weird as fuck. If the opportunity arises though, I'm going for it.

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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:26:59 No.23861675 Report Delete

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>>23861178
>body language
I really hate this meme.
The one girl I've ever been with showed signs of being disinterested, but it turns out she was just nervous around me. Furthermore, plenty of women will display positive body language when they are just being friendly. Fuck this gay earth.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:27:31 No.23861695 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861835

>>23861633
The only person making it "weird as fuck" is you. Stop making excuses to yourself and do it. Ask her out for coffee, or for lunch or something else casual. Make the context clear. And leave this place before it sucks you in like it did me and so many others.

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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:29:24 No.23861740 Report Delete

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>see her every wednesday in band practice
>she always gives me this deer in headlights look when she sees me and asks I am
>don't have the gonads to ask for her number
>forever going to just go to sleep and wake up imagining her there in my arms warming my bed

She's probably just at a loss for words because english isn't her first language but holy fuck she is so cute

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:33:20 No.23861833 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23861988

I don't know man. I feel like girls just string you along for the attention or something, because I'll like a girl and try to hang out with her and shit and it'll just end up with me either taking her out on dates and getting nowhere or her just blowing me off

But once in a great while (like 3 or 4 times in my lifetime) a girl will just approach me and be like "Wow you're hot."

I don't get it

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:33:28 No.23861835 Report Delete

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>>23861695
I've been here for years so I doubt ill ever leave. But your probably right about me being the one making it weird. Wish me luck kind anon.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:39:58 No.23861988 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862055

>>23861833
post pic dude, women dont just do that w/o a reason

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:41:33 No.23862015 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862065

>>23859986
>self esteem
>dignity
>the respect of the people around you when she tells them how much of a loser you are
I could go on...

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:43:43 No.23862055 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862284

>>23861988
>post pic
>on /r9k/
I'm bad with women but I'm not stupid

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:44:09 No.23862065 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>23862015
>insecurity
>suicidal thoughts
>virginity
He could lose some other things too

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:48:02 No.23862143 Report Delete

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>>23859685
I agree with this.

don't try to delude yourself like I did, one brief moment of bravery can cause you a lifetime of misery.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 16:53:56 No.23862284 Report Delete

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>>23862055
well clearly you are, as you could just blur out the face dumbass

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 17:00:21 No.23862405 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862546

Better question, how do move closer to an appropriate moment to make a move. Full disclosure, I've managed to get her to be receptive to kissing and stuff twice already, but aside from copious amounts of alcohol being involved for both of us, I can't seem to figure out exactly what I did to make the moment feel "right". Do non-failed normies just make moves out of the blue?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 17:06:18 No.23862546 Report Delete

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>>23862405
>how do move
*how do I move

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 17:11:23 No.23862678 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>23862992

>>23859986
As someone who chose mark as their photo I think you will remember when he says "what's the worst that could happen? She could say no. Actually, that would be terrible. It would destroy me if she said no."

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 17:26:26 No.23862992 Report Delete

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>>23862678
Well now that I'm actually thinking about it, she's not in my major so if I don't act now ill probably never see her again. I'd rather be rejected and know than do nothing and wonder if I had a chance.

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