The amount of messages women get and the sheer volume of chodes that inundate them with 'nice guy' (transparently vested interest) messages gives them a kind of dismissive, douchebag loving subculture on the site. This includes the hambeasts, butterfaces and even the deformed so long as they possess a cunt. You're lack of game bleeds out of your profile isolating you as a non-alpha.
Firstly decide what you want, a fuck, a gf or a choice. Either way you then judge them, scrutinise their taste, personality and neg them ruthlessly. For every neg they get 300 blokes m'lady their way to their profile and drops them a msg proclaiming undying love. It makes you stand out.
Stop messaging fatties, butterfaces, if she isn't your 8/10 qt the amount of effort and failure rate of internet dating makes it not worth it. Chatting up fatties hurts your confidence too.
Be exciting, they don't want to be told how secure you'll make them, nothing dries up pussy faster.
Its like /r9k/ refuse to learn anything about women despite it being all you talk about.