>>22706700>Do you prefer to be the "good looking one" in the relationship? Can't say I've ever really had that thought, wondering which of us is hotter. I'm more focused on "wow I got such a good looking man!"
But going after a really good looking guy, thats whats intimidating. Before you're dating or not, just trying to figure out if they're into me, I think thats harder if its someone I feel is really "out of my league"
Which brings me to the next question, yeah I think thats true because of above.
I'd say I'm a 6 at best on a good day. Nothing too special about my looks, mostly just average. I've hardly ever sought out anyone I considered to be too much above me, because I always assumed they'd feel grossed out by some obviously ugly/plain chick trying to hit them up. I'm sure its the same with some guys.
There was once a guy who I thought was a solid 10/10 who kind of half heartedly flirted with me once, I only pushed the invitation a little because he initiated it. Otherwise I would have never even thought about trying, still turns out I was wrong about his intentions tho and he wanted nothing to do with anyone that wasn't a solid 10 themselves. Oh well.