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Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:21:55 No.22696043 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696091 >>22696183 >>22696254 >>22696278

so im a kissless virgin
and a super cute girl I meet on tinder is coming to my place tonight for casual sex

so
how do I go about making this the least awkward thing possible?
like whats the procedure leading up to full sex?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9NtzS6LG Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:22:51 No.22696050 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696080

How'd you manage to get her to come over?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:8xtQDPZU Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:26:21 No.22696069 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696089

I'm considering using tinder, what are the basics of it? do I absolutely need pictures or can I just use a single shitty picture I took with my phone? are there any key words or phrases to use if I want a LTR?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:27:57 No.22696080 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696115

>>22696050
im actually decent looking and we have the same taste in music

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:G41bjHWr Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:30:08 No.22696089 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696106

>>22696069
i dont think they usually work out. i never used tinder but i once had a friend who wrote that he was looking for a relationship and only got swipes or whatever from ugly chicks.

i mean hes a decent looking dude too.

but i guess if youre a 9/10 you might get an average girl on there to be interested in a relationship.

my impression of it, is its just a place people look to get laid.

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Anonymous ID:1awNTx3j Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:30:55 No.22696091 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696111 >>22696180

>>22696043

What are the plans? Is she JUST coming over for sex, or is there some expectation that the two of you will hang out first?

If she's just coming over for sex and nothing else, then I wouldn't worry about it at all. She's clearly been with a lot of guys, and most one night stands are terrible. So you won't be any different than some other shitty one nighter.

If you're never going to see her again, then you can pop your kiss cherry, and real cherry, without having to worry if you're doing it right.

The worst that will happen is that you'll be the punch line of a story she tells about when she hooked up with this guy who played with her tits like pizza dough and came early.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:8xtQDPZU Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:34:04 No.22696106 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696124

>>22696089
well, despite being a virgin I don't want to just get laid. I'm lonely and I just want somebody to love, but I'm too introverted/shy to initiate anything.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dvTmBVes Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:34:41 No.22696111 Report Delete

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>>22696091
Agreed with this post. With one exception - if you two are in it for the long haul, you're better off just telling her you're a virgin tbh.

No point in acting like you know what you're doing just to fuck it up. Frame it like this: she gets to teach you how she wants to be fucked. You might end up having a better time in the long run.

Or, you know, she'll laugh. Which is about what would happen if you lied anyway. This is the business we've chosen.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9NtzS6LG Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:35:04 No.22696115 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696180

>>22696080
Right, but what did you say to her to get her to want to come over? Generally people who are kissless virgins aren't very smooth, I'm curious what your conversation was like.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1awNTx3j Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:36:03 No.22696124 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696159

>>22696106

If you're looking for a relationship, then try OK Cupid or Match.com, or one of those dating sites.

It's weird, but Tinder is considered a dating site in Germany. But here in the US it's definitely a hook up site first and foremost.

So if you want to lose your virginity, try tinder.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:8xtQDPZU Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:42:07 No.22696159 Report Delete

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>>22696124
I tried okcupid, there is/was no-one in my area that I found very suitable. isn't match one of those subscription ones? I'm too poor for that.

I also tried to sign up on PoF, but whenever I try to make an account it puts me in a feedback loop of "this email already has an account" and then "there is no account associated with this email". I've tried different IP, different username, and different emails.

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Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:46:09 No.22696180 Report Delete

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>>22696115
im not fucking r9k bro
I was just pretty oblivious to girls advances in highschool

>>22696091
I just want it to be smooth
like
when she come in the door what are the steps?
just be all eyy ready for da fuk?
or hey blablabla for ten minutes then lean in?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:SLbViCg+ Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:47:22 No.22696183 Report Delete

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>>22696043
tell her youre a virgin and tell her youre a bit nervous havw a glass of wine maybe some bourbon instead just take things easy and be honost once you start a bumpin everything will be smooth

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:tMszYAGK Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:53:09 No.22696207 Report Delete

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I never liked the sex in first ocasion. I don't feel confortable, sex with person that I met in real life or we get each other was far way better. Or a guy that I met on facebook, he was bisexual and we talk months and months, the sex was great

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:z7PSSo84 Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:57:07 No.22696221 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696710

Leave door unlocked.

Naked man theory

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eZ8o13eL Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:01:15 No.22696239 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696255

depends on the girl OP, but to play it safe

homecook meal, nothing shitty, nothing extravagant, just pasta or whatever.

get a tv show or movie or someshit and then progressively go from arm around her to pulling her close to you to hand on her thigh, just keep moving forward unless she tells you to stop. you're meeting her for casual sex i dont think she'll tell you to stop. at this point just kiss her or something, if need be start on the neck and progress to lips. when clothes come off it'll be natural dont worry op u got this.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:AlSB7n8s Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:06:12 No.22696254 Report Delete

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>>22696043
is your name beta chad?

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Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:06:27 No.22696255 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696262

>>22696239
>casual sex
>make her dinner and watch a movie

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:AlSB7n8s Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:07:16 No.22696262 Report Delete

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>>22696255
dubs are for winners, not faggots who can't get pussy.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:oI00qMLa Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:09:20 No.22696272 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696979

Masterbate like, twice before she comes over. Not in a row, but it means if you do shag her you won't cum too fast, which is always an issue for virgins.

Also, do some manscaping, you don't want her to throw up. Main thing is, don't pussy out or nothing will happen and youll feel stupid and she'll lose interest.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:pAp42BmR Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:10:37 No.22696278 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696400

>>22696043
just treat her like a normal person who you are about to have sex with. i mean, fuck.

Why do people have a hard time with THIS? Getting the girl is the only hard part.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:J7egbcfD Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:39:45 No.22696400 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696569

>>22696278
This. Oblivious to girls in high school, my ass. You're just another autistic robot.

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Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:01:56 No.22696569 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696599

>>22696400
rude and projecting much?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Y8o4Dvhk Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:06:25 No.22696599 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696619

>>22696569
Yes rude, but he's not projecting. You're literally asking us how you should go about having sex (supposedly) having a girl on the line. That's like perfect r9k material right there.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RycIPqk8 Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:08:56 No.22696619 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22696665

>>22696599
people in r9k never even get to this step brauh

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Y8o4Dvhk Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:15:14 No.22696665 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22697079

>>22696619
Wrong. A few of them, using dating websites like you, find a girl who somehow isn't chased away by the awkwardness, then make very similar topics to this asking for help. Just tell her you're inexperienced. She's almost definitely going to know one way or the other.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:allq9s/y Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:17:18 No.22696678 Report Delete

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>clean your place
>make it smell nice
>light up some candles
>put some easy music on
>dress nicely but don't have too many layers
>prepare the condoms nearby but not on a visible spot
>dont overthink it
>when you hear the doorbell
>open the door
>get on the floor
>everybody do the dinosaur

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ktgw9gsp Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:23:07 No.22696710 Report Delete

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>>22696221
I like dis. "Come in"
>statue of David paying Nude
Hey baby.
You'll both get a laugh out of it, plus secks

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:jJwlnLS6 Wed 28 Oct 2015 20:01:05 No.22696979 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>22698922

>>22696272

>Talking to some girl on okcupid
>hit her with the 20 letters in the alphabet pick up line
>she fucking loves it
>ask her when our date is
>I suggest friday and some shitty horror movies at my uni
>she suggests I come to her dorm since her roommate leaves on fridays
>literally netflix and chilling her
>by her suggestions without much talking into it

she could back out, got her number and we talked a bit the first day. I waited and texted her two days after, got 1-2 texts. I feel like it's not gonna work out, but I was gonna text her tomorrow? (or not, and do it at like lunch the day of or something to make sure we're still on?)

I DUNNO, SEND HELP HERE

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Anonymous ID:uvE2/by3 Wed 28 Oct 2015 20:19:36 No.22697079 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>22696665
accidentally getting the pussy on a social media site turned me into a normie

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:SW/IemU4 Thu 29 Oct 2015 02:05:05 No.22698922 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>22696979
if you're planning this hard...you're simply doing life the wrong way.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:QS/DFEPP Thu 29 Oct 2015 09:32:39 No.22700106 Report Delete

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Just tell her your a virgin so you'll need some lessons. She's not going to run away just because you're a virgin.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:THzXeBSD Thu 29 Oct 2015 14:34:26 No.22700942 Report Delete

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OP or anyone wanna help me out? I just somehow matched with a legitimate 8.5/10 brunette pale qt and I wanna get in her pants. Halp

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