>>22704621Holy cow, yif you are not the center of attention by being every guy born in the late 80's early 90's secret fetish something will be amiss.
Personally, i kind of like it when women approach ME, it may sound strange, and it is most likely due to me being so insecure about if a female finds me attractive or not, but i kind of like it when someone is being pretty open and direct. If there is interest, he will definitely respond, if not, just move on to the other guy, instead of trying to passively charm because no fucking guy i ever met have liked that sort of thing. Its just annoying and frustrating not knowing whether or not you are flirting with us.
Yeah, i actually am pretty confident and secure in who i am, my problem is that im not that proud over myself or my achievements, even though most of my friends view me as a jack of all trades, a secure and stable friend, and a guy who is never afraid to try new things etc.
I usually look around a room and see guys who look several times better in my eyes, or who i think have accomplished a lot more then me (albeit these people are always +4 years older)
For grabbing a nerdy girl to watch adventure time with and be awkward together with, should i go full chad-mode, or should i try to seem relaxed, confident, but be open about my dorkyness (living in a uni-city btw)