>>63005385If she brings it up say that, but just invite to have coffee or something. The goal is to show her that you're another path, vs consoling her. You want her to do things with you, not talk to you when she's sad.
Find something she likes or something local that would involve time to talk or time to do something (ie walk in park to have coffee) let her talk, but find mutual topics to try and bring her to a place where you're not talking about her past, but you're actually talking about things that are mutually interesting. Most importantly dont try to hard, don't have a definitive plan, or script, you need a certain amount of flexibility.
