>>1873531first of all, never cut your hair short. instead what you need to do is focus on dressing sharp, slacks, military cut, mantles instead of shawls, clean cut edges instead of curves. not that you can't have curves, but they should be a treat basted in the sharpness of male dress, not on display as the fruit itself like in female clothing. consider crossdressing as male clothing has different cuts than most females, especially for slacks.
there are a TON of suits type pictures for this kind of thing that are more nice with long hair but I wanted to avoid it to show you could get away without a tux as long as you have something sharp and collared.
the next step is having a males confidence, this is mostly a misnomer, but essentially what it boils down to is stability, you want to appear to have an ocean of calm around you, and that when things are weak for you and you need help, you address it proactively and unashamedly. you need to have a personality your girl will want to follow, as just about anyone looking for the dashing prince lesbian is going to be submissive. she will want to support you, but will also be looking for you to show you aren't on an ego trip, that wanting her assistance doesn't threaten your ego but makes you more strong and confident. theres a fine line between this and condescending, but people generally gravitate towards this archtype for a reason; so its also not a bad idea to consider praising your loves utility to you in both love and service. as you are the lead in the relationship, doing so with warmth will ensure that when you are weak she will still feel protected and secure in knowing that your moods being placable aren't a threat to the leash you've woven around her heart, nor will you appear to be too weak to deal with the support she herself will need.
