>>1872458As I've said it's useless to play the blame game, both are equally at fault.
From an old
ask.fm answer by the author:
Q: After looking at chap 10, I felt that sumin is too much, but looking from sumin's pov it seems that seju is too much instead...Who's in the wrong? This is so confusing... Even so, looking at seju suffering while drinking made me feel so heartbroken... So author, who's wrong?
A: Hmm..if you understand sumin's pain, you will think seju is wrong. If you don't understand, you will feel that sumin is wrong instead.
I think it's incorrect to say who's more "wrong" here.
In sumin's pov, while she was in her frustration and suffering mode, seju wanted her to think of her future so sumin was furious.
In seju's pov, she thinks that there's a whole lot more to consider about in the future and she was afraid that sumin would just give up on her life like that (just doing nothing). So she could not understand what sumin was feeling and was angry.
You have to remember that seju have not experience a loss of any close family members so she couldn't possibly understand sumin fully.
Thus, this depends on who's pov you're looking at and not blaming who's more wrong, in a sense.