I cant believen im seriously going to /x/ for this shit but here it is. I'm on meds that kill my sex drive (antidepressants and birth control) , it's seriously straining my relationship of 5 years. I'm at the point that I will try damn near anything that might jumpstart it.

Not Christian/catholic so bring on the occult shit if you think it will help. I have a decent sized herb garden and store of dried herbs if anyone knows a remedy along those lines, and if I dont have something I know where to get it.

Can't do any illegal drugs, work tests for it and alcohol just makes me sleepy. I woupd just straight up stop the meds but the antidepressants are the only ones ive found to work and I have to be on birth control for medical reasons.